forever????

i just found out that the couple i envy just broke up!!!

as the saying goes, nothing is permanent, only change.....so why do people break up?...is it because they dont love each other anymore, is it possible to just woke up one day and you dont love that person anymore? is that logical, to throw years of love and friendship out the window that easily...are there signs to look out for? i know for a fact that in a long term relatioship the first thing that goes is the "kilig", of course its logical that it would be the first one, then maybe the next one will be the sweetness, then the passion and lastly the love, if its indeed LOVE....i always tell my friends that falling in love is a decision, you decide to fall in love because you want to share that love in you with someone else...coz if you fall in love just for the sake of it, then what happens if that "IT" you felt before isnt there anymore, you'll just say "okay, i dont love him/ her anymore, time to find another one that will give me fire", or "im getting bored with this relationship", "he's not as sexy as before or he's not good in bed anymore".....up till know im not sure if i found the right answer to lasting relationships...i think or i wanna believe i found it...sabi nga, ang pag-ibig parang sugal yan...ipusta mo na lahat....kung talo talo......kung panalo, eh di "BONGANG BONGA"